For families facing dementia
You're a good carer
having an
impossible day.
When the evening turns and nothing is working — tap what's happening and get calm steps shaped around your person, in seconds.
Free. No account. No card.
Built by a family carer who was up at 3am too. — Ionuț
Right now
What's happening?
They're agitated, and nothing you say is landing.
- 1Take one slow breath before you do anything. You can't calm someone if you're not calm.
- 2Pain, hunger, needing the bathroom, or an infection can all cause agitation. These need to be ruled out first.
- 3Speak slowly and softly. Don't argue, correct, or explain. Match their emotional tone — validate what they're feeling, not the facts.
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What OurTurn remembers about Maria
PlusExample- Warm towel first, not the word 'bath' 👍
With Plus, every 👍 becomes part of their playbook.
The steps are already on this page — nothing about you is stored, and you never need an account.
If anyone is in danger right now, call 112. OurTurn's suggestions come from an AI and are always labelled as such.
Free help for the hard moments — never metered10 free guides, no account neededCrisis lines for 27 European countries — checked July 2026Interface in 31 languagesGDPR-first, hosted in the EU
Made by a family carer who was up at 3am too.
It's 6pm.
The bath, again.
You know the moment. The one you dread all day.
The sundowning. The refusing to eat. The “I want to go home” when you’re already home. In that moment you don’t know what to do — and there’s no one to ask.
What settled them last time, medication times, appointments — it all lives in your head. And when you forget, the guilt is crushing.
Googling at 2am
Eleven tabs. Generic advice. None of it about your mum.
Asking a chatbot
Starts from zero every time. It doesn't know what you tried last Tuesday.
The carer forum
Kind strangers — three hours later.
OurTurn answers in seconds, about your person — and remembers what helped, because you told it.
How it works
Set up in three steps. Help starts today.
Tell us about them, once.
Their name, what soothes them, what they love. Two minutes.
When the moment hits, tap what's happening.
Calm steps shaped around your person — not a generic anyone.
When something helps, tap 👍.
With Plus, OurTurn keeps it. Next time, 'warm towel first' is already there.
Six months in, it knows Maria settles with the radio and the blue cardigan — because you told it once, on a hard Tuesday.
Example
A week with OurTurn
Not features. Moments.
What a hard, ordinary week looks like with a care partner in your pocket.
Tuesday, 6:15pm. The bath, again.
You tap what's happening. Calm steps, written around her.
Step back and lower your voice
Warm the towel first — lead with comfort
Try again in ten minutes, as if it's the first time
Tuesday, 6:40pm. It helped.
You tap 👍 once. 'Warm towel first' becomes a line in what-works-for-Maria — and it stays there.
What OurTurn remembers about Maria
PlusExample- Warm towel first, not the word 'bath' 👍
- Music from the kitchen radio, not headphones 👍
- Ask about the bakery, never the war years 👍
Wednesday, 8:30pm. A gentle check-in.
Before the hard hours: 'Evenings have felt heavier this week. Want to think through tonight together?'
OurTurn
Evenings have felt heavier this week. Want to think through tonight together?
Thursday, 3pm. She takes her walk.
You see she’s on her usual loop. You get to just… let her.
Next month. 'How have things been?'
The doctor asks. This time you have the patterns you observed and the questions worth asking — on one printable page.
OurTurn Care Summary
Evenings calmer after short walks
Questions for the doctor: 3
Also: the guides work offline · your whole family sees one calm picture · notices when your own check-ins have been heavier · and for them, a companion, not a test — the AI talks to you, never to them.
“When our family faced a dementia diagnosis, the hardest part wasn’t the logistics — it was the moments we didn’t know how to handle. The refusing, the repeating, the “I want to go home.” We looked everywhere for something to get us through those moments. It didn’t exist. So we built it.”
OurTurn started as one family’s need after an Alzheimer’s diagnosis. We learned from the approaches dementia carers are taught — validation, person-centred care, the DICE method — and turned them into calm, in-the-moment help any family can reach for. We’re still early, and we’d love your family to help shape it.
— Ionuț, who built OurTurn
OurTurn's AI tells you it's an AI.
A wellness product, not a medical device. In an emergency, call 112.
GDPR-first. Your family's data is handled under EU rules, hosted in the EU.
Crisis lines for 27 European countries — checked July 2026 →
OurTurn launches this year. The first families shape it — and the help pages are free either way.
If you never give us your email, we still want tonight to go better.
Ten guides for the hardest moments. Free, anonymous, written to be read one-handed at 2am.
Crisis lines for 27 European countries
Checked July 2026. One page, every number.
Every guide is printable.
Print it, stick it on the fridge, hand it to whoever's on duty tonight.
Prefer them in your inbox?
We'll email you all ten guides in printable form. One email — no newsletter unless you ask for it.
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Pricing
The help is free. Forever.
Every hard moment. Every question to the coach. Never metered, never paywalled — that's a promise, not a trial.
Free
$0
- Unlimited in-the-moment help
- Unlimited AI Care Coach
- Today's plan for your person
- The 10 free guides & crisis lines
No card. No trial clock.
Plus
Plus is where OurTurn starts remembering.
$7.92/month
$94.99/year
- The playbook of what works for your person — growing every week
What OurTurn remembers about Maria
PlusExample- Warm towel first, not the word 'bath' 👍
- Music from the kitchen radio, not headphones 👍
- Ask about the bakery, never the war years 👍
- Evening check-ins before the hard hours
- Location & safe zones
- Doctor visit reports
- Your whole family, one calm picture
Cancel anytime. The help stays free.
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Just noticed some changes?
Whether you are waiting on answers or simply want more peace of mind, OurTurn helps you organise daily life, keep everyone connected, and feel a little more in control — gently, at your own pace.
OurTurn supports families whether or not a diagnosis is confirmed. It is a wellness and daily-life companion — not a screening, assessment, or medical tool.
Questions
The things you might be wondering
Is the free help really unlimited?
We've only just noticed some changes. Is it too early?
How is this different from asking ChatGPT at 2am?
Is this medical advice?
What does the AI do with what I share?
Does my mum have to use anything?
What languages does OurTurn speak?
Can my brother join?
What happens if I stop paying?
Tonight doesn't have to feel like last night.
Two minutes to set up. Free — no card, no trial clock.
OurTurn is a wellness companion for carers, not a medical device. You'll always know when you're talking to AI. If someone is in immediate danger, call 112.